There is a man in the world whom I love. He loves me back, though we’re not in love with each other. We didn’t have a chance to fall in love. In our history, the timing, availability, confidence, or consistency was not right enough for us to make anything substantive happen. At various points in […]
Supremacist Patriarchies Hurt And Kill People. Supreme Love Heals and Saves People.
How does the cultivation of Supreme Lover Identity speak to/against supremacist patriarchies? There are two important points to remember when understanding the relationship between Supreme Lover Identity and justice movements. The first step involves understanding patriarchies and their effects in/on the Spectrum of Personhood. The second step involves understanding Supreme Love as a radical, indomitable, […]
How To Get In Touch With Holiness
Holiness is really important. It’s really important for learning Supreme Love in Self. It’s equally important for learning Supreme Love for Others and Community. Practicing holiness means connecting to our Creator. It means grounding oneself in Love, Faith, Peace, Hope, and Truth in the course of everyday life, someday situations, and anyday nightmares. These […]
When Someone Loves You, It Means This. When Someone Doesn’t Love You, It Doesn’t Mean This.
When someone loves you, it means they have love inside to give to you. It means they see a home for their love in you. It means they are capable, available, desirous, willing, and clear on how to give love to you. It doesn’t mean you are inherently lovable. When someone does […]
Do Not Help The Patriarchy
A while back, an NBA player made outrageous, egregious remarks against WNBA players. He called his women colleagues “#beanpies” and “#donkeykong”. He said if they were physically attractive by his “standards,”they would be more successful in the sport and draw more fans. Seriously. He really did. He went further by posting a […]