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The title of this blog exemplifies what I call a “pickle.” It’s a conundrum. If someone you love has no idea how important they are to you and you have no idea how to explain it to them, you’ve got a mess. A few weeks ago I sent the message that you want to talk […]
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As the youngest of three girls, I was often instructed, whenever we were set off to go anywhere, to stay with my sisters. Stay with your sisters. And, our eldest sister, Joy, was told not to let us (my sister Lori and I) out of her sight. Don’t let them out of your […]
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During my most recent talks, I’ve had the pleasure, and challenge, of clarifying the differences between relational and social microaggressions. These are the “little t” terrors I mention repeatedly in the #2016SupremeLoveSummit. I want to share my thoughts with you because, when focused on healing, it’s important to be clear about the form, function, and […]
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In an earlier post, I talked about Learning Lover Identity. A lot of women have posted their #LoverIdentities in the Supreme Love Project closed Facebook group. I find the discoveries fascinating. My two-part diagnostic is based on my research. It’s organized around the narrative structures of fragmented selves. Fragmented selves are the parts of Self […]
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Several years ago, I was engaged in a conversation with a group of women whom I’d known for a while. There were seven of us at a table in a trendy restaurant in Chicago. We sat talking, over lunch, chatting about what was new…sharing updates: Someone was promoted. Someone was planning a move to a […]