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When you need a helping hand, who do you call? If you’re a Bonnie, you have a Clyde (the man you’re riding for). And, you also have a crew (the one or two women who ride with you). You’re a ride-or-die chick so you’d think you’re list was long. Yet, ironically, it isn’t. Why […]
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Lover identity is a person’s entire relational ideology and being. It’s a key concept in life and love. Here are the five toxic, reactionary lover identities I found in my research with Black women: Main Chick – You are a leader. You run the show. You are an overachiever and accustomed […]