Read more
How does the cultivation of Supreme Lover Identity speak to/against supremacist patriarchies? There are two important points to remember when understanding the relationship between Supreme Lover Identity and justice movements. The first step involves understanding patriarchies and their effects in/on the Spectrum of Personhood. The second step involves understanding Supreme Love as a radical, indomitable, […]
Read more
When I was going through My terror in Ten Years, I tried a lot of things to stabilize my panic and anxiety. A few things helped. I changed my diet by reigning back on sugar and going without it altogether for weeks at a time. I started to work out more regularly to alleviate stress. […]
Read more
Remember when Victor Cruz’s fiance sent a catch-all text message to his Side Chicks? A few people sent me the story, along with a bunch of LOLs and SMHs. I totally got the humor, I just couldn’t laugh. Why? Because, I used to be a Main Chick too. I spent years in often painful “monogamous” […]
Read more
I used to think my backstory was boring. I used to think it could only result in relentless mocking because my upbringing was pretty idyllic. I lived very happily as a child. I’ve never been poor, homeless, or hungry. I don’t remember ever not getting something I asked for. As a matter of fact, I […]
Read more
To My White Colleagues Who Wonder How to Appease Them: Here’s my take. No filter. No edits. A prime reason we keep spinning over initiatives like affirmative action, laboring over problems like abhorrent state sanctioned violence in schools and society, struggling with equity issues across groups and communities, and myriad other manifestations of racism, […]