Lover Identity

How To Change Your Lover Identity (If You Have One You Don’t Want)

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In an earlier post, I talked about Learning Lover Identity. A lot of women have posted their #LoverIdentities in the Supreme Love Project closed Facebook group. I find the discoveries fascinating. My two-part diagnostic is based on my research. It’s organized around the narrative structures of fragmented selves. Fragmented selves are the parts of Self […]

How Your Lover Identity Gets Built

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  In Open Letter From A Recovering Main Chick, I defined lover identity. I also shared how it gets built, over time. I noted that lover identity develops from childhood. I said it gets built in relation to our parents, siblings, and friends.  I also said it gets built in relation to strangers. Several women […]

Once Upon A Time, When You Were A Side Chick

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You were deprived.   Hungry. Thirsty. You were in want of food for your body and water for your soul. He seemed to be right on time, bearing gifts, and grins that made the empty parts of you wake up from their slumber. So, you got fed. Finally. Fed. You got filled up. Finally full. […]

If You Are A Victim, You Will Not Read This

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It’s really hard to talk about Victims.   It’s much easier to talk about victims. A victim is someone who was harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or intentional action. Little “v” victims are people who’ve been struck by misfortune, a trial, or tragedy. They’ve certainly dealt with terrors. They’ve […]

Calling All Bitches

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You know who you are.   You can feel the hardness under your skin. You’re tough as nails, gritty as sandpaper, and solid as a rock. You take no shorts. You go hard. You see through bullshit and you don’t bullshit. You’re not sentimental. You have no time for softness or slowness. You’re impatient and […]

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