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When people ask me why I write about love and life so much I say it’s because a lot of people are in danger of loving and living unconsciously (myself included). Unconsciousness creates more space for the t/Terrors in love and life to fester, unrecognized and unmediated. That’s bad for everybody and it’s bad for […]
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I’m a particular kind of woman. Here’s a superficial breakdown (because of limited space and time): I’m Black. More specifically, I’m African American. I’m cis. That means I agree, psychologically, socially, and sensually, with the gender I was assigned at birth. I’m straight. I like men; I like the ones who are masculine. I’m […]
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There are so many ways we’re taught to be ashamed of ourselves, especially our interior life. We’re taught to cover up our questions, desires, perceived weaknesses, and struggles. I used to support that stance. I don’t do that anymore because I learned it’s the cover that’s a shame. Instead, I’m down for reveals. Big ones. […]