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How does the cultivation of Supreme Lover Identity speak to/against supremacist patriarchies? There are two important points to remember when understanding the relationship between Supreme Lover Identity and justice movements. The first step involves understanding patriarchies and their effects in/on the Spectrum of Personhood. The second step involves understanding Supreme Love as a radical, indomitable, […]
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It’s really hard to talk about Victims. It’s much easier to talk about victims. A victim is someone who was harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or intentional action. Little “v” victims are people who’ve been struck by misfortune, a trial, or tragedy. They’ve certainly dealt with terrors. They’ve […]
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When you need a helping hand, who do you call? If you’re a Bonnie, you have a Clyde (the man you’re riding for). And, you also have a crew (the one or two women who ride with you). You’re a ride-or-die chick so you’d think you’re list was long. Yet, ironically, it isn’t. Why […]
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Remember when Victor Cruz’s fiance sent a catch-all text message to his Side Chicks? A few people sent me the story, along with a bunch of LOLs and SMHs. I totally got the humor, I just couldn’t laugh. Why? Because, I used to be a Main Chick too. I spent years in often painful “monogamous” […]
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To My White Colleagues Who Wonder How to Appease Them: Here’s my take. No filter. No edits. A prime reason we keep spinning over initiatives like affirmative action, laboring over problems like abhorrent state sanctioned violence in schools and society, struggling with equity issues across groups and communities, and myriad other manifestations of racism, […]